wHy aRe tEenS sO slaNz nOw?

+`____Dedicated to the trouble-hearted and loners here!!!____`+

"Teens tend to keep their problems all to themselves. Hence, they are very troubled deep within. They dare not let others know too. So that's why some experienced the 'lonely' problem. No one knows of his/her existence due to the lack of interaction with him/her, furthermore his/her problems. No one talks to them and cares for them as a result. In the end, they are left to him/herself and became 'loners' in the world."

"Teens (generally) in Singapore then tend to use the word 'sian' especially in conversations and surprisingly, daily without fail. This is not referring to the actual literal meaning of 'boring' (if translated to english). But, as i've come to learn,~ 'yu men'. This is caused by the problems kept hidden in their minds, and in result, they feel real down and bored physically, totally exhausted. That's why they expressed this feeling they have, with the common word 'sian'. Another reason is because teens, with their egos, use 'sian' to kill time of quiteness in conversations. They do not want the other friends, talking to him/her, to feel bored or weird because of the sudden silence. So, with the word 'sian', the others can start talking about other topics, probably about him/her do-ings and well-beings. And with this going on, his/her troubled minds will then stop burdening him/her. (i guess one! Haha...can't think of a better explanation.)"

*these are what me and ma chinese tuition teacher had talked about. Quite true for most of the teens here lar, i feel. Yep...so those with troubled hearts out there! Be more open to the ones you are comfortable with and maybe they can help you! =) Don't keep it inside. Not healthy alright? Aye...this is all for the topic. Hope it has been meaningful to many loners out there. Smile always!*

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